Thursday, November 7, 2013

Walking away

Part of being a winner is knowing when enough is enough. Sometimes you have to give up the fight and walk away, and move on to something that's more productive.

Knowing when to walk is Wisdom. Being able to is Courage. Walking away with Grace and your head held high is Dignity 

I choose to leave everything bad/negative behind me. Like Craig David sung "am walking away from d troubles in ma life....to find a better day". I choose to not let things I have control over get d best of me. I choose to take a step...d hardest action ever...that 1st step to "freedom".After all like Charles Evans Hughes said "When we lose the right to be different, we lose the privilege to be free".Am going to be different hence forth.....am taking ma freedom back.

It's always been true that I hold others more important to me than myself. Am walking away from this. I'm giving more time to me. I'm giving more love to me. I'm giving much more care to me.Placing them before me all the time had made me forget about "me".A friend of mine said, “as friends, we all use each other at some point” but there’s people that abuse this. They take you for granted and leave you torn.I choose to walk away...

Am done always saying sorry for things that aint even ma fault...but b'se am so scared of hurting people, I end up saying sorry 4 their wrongs just so we can live in harmony. Because I care too much..even wen I shdnt, I take peoples faults as mine just so d problem will go away. But now, I choose to walk away.

I cease 2 care about what people say.I just learned d hard way that in most cases its just to make us feel bad about ourselves. Very few people if any give opinions out of good will. Like Lwana Blackwell said in "The dowry of Miss Lydia Clark" "Patterning yo life around other's opinions is nothing more than slavery". I choose 2 break free from this self imposed slavery!

I choose to walk away from bearing the burdens of the world on my small shoulders.I will break n no one will care. That's just how man kind is.

Often times am afraid to do the things I like, too scared to pursue wat ma heart really desires koz wen I think of d possibility of failure I always freak out. But I choose to walk away from this....am gonna go get wat I feel I want. Not afraid any more...

Half measures are very dangerous....i walk away from these too bse it is bad to take onto something only partially. It wont make sense anyway n may cause u alot of pain due to time wasted n efforts put in.

Am done tolerating people with negative energy koz dey don’t add any value to ma life. Am done pretending its all okay. I choose to walk away

There's colleagues that make life hard at office.Always pretending to be the best and making others feel worthless...am so done letting them get their way. I will always stand for what's right, perform ma duties to d best of my ability. None of them will bring me down ever again.

I love with all ma heart n this too has gotten me into lotsa trouble. I now choose to love me some more koz “me” will never disappoint me. I won’t let no one walk all over ma heart with their dirty feet ever again. I choose to not love in vain any more.Am done being an option to people koz am worth so much more n can be top priority.

No more stressing over trivial issues such as facebook friends saying crap about me, unfriending me, koz really, there's far more important staff to worry about than this. 

This has nothing to do with weakness, everything to do with strength. I walk away not because I want you to realize my worth and value, but because I finally realize my OWN.

I choose to adopt a positive attitude koz wen u have one and constantly strive to give your best effort, eventually you will overcome your immediate problems and find you are ready for greater challenges. So I choose to walk away from negativity.

Like Barbara Hall said "Because yo in control of yo life, dont 4get that U are what u are because of the conscious and subconscious choices u have made". So i consciously choose to be different hence forth.

Go Ella!


Monday, October 21, 2013

Testing ma new blog

Today, my friend taught me h0w to do this; Creating a blog and all. I'm so excited because  I've always wanted a place where I can just be me; pour my heart out with reckless abandon.

Well Mauryn thanks.

You're the best!